Resources for Parents and Teachers

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Books:

  • Family Healing: Strategies for Hope and Understanding

            Written by:  Salvador Minuchi

Pioneer in family counseling and therapy gives strategies to heal families.

  • How to deal with your Acting Up Teenager

            Written by:  Robert Bayard

Practical but loving parenting approaches.

  • How to Talk so Kids will Listen and Listen so Kids will TalkGo to inbox

            Written by:  Adele Faber

Improve communication skills with your teenager. 

  • Parent in Control: Restore Order in your Home and Create a Loving Relationship with Your Adolescent.

            Written by:  Gregory Bodenhamer

A practical no nonsense guide on how to add structure, rules and basic     parenting approaches into your home. 

  • Parenting Your Out of Control Teenager: 7 Steps to reestablish authority and reclaim Love.

            Written by:  Dr. Scott Sells

An excellent resource and step by step guide to deal with the out of control and average teenage issues. A how to guide on dealing with chores, disrespect, schoolwork, drugs, and other issues. 

  • Positive Discipline for Teenagers: Empowering your Teens and Yourself through Kind and Firm Parenting

            Written by:  Jane Nelsen, Ph. D

Positive parenting strategies, a guide designed for parents, teens and educators which explains how to resolve conflicts.

  • Taming the Dragon in Your Child: Solutions for Breaking the Cycle of Family Anger from Toddler to Teens    

            Written by:  M. Eastman and S. Rozen

This book examines anger and how it is express, a problem often confronting parents. The book introduces realistic ideas on changing behavior patterns in times of conflict, plus strategies on opening communication and establishing discipline plans to teach decision-making skills.

  • Raising Your Spirited Child: A Guide for Parents Whose Child is More Intense, Sensitive, perceptive, Persistent, Energetic

            Written by M. Kurcinka

This book is about normal children who are more intense, persistent, sensitive, perceptive, and uncomfortable with change than other children. A positive approach is taken to reassure parents as they attempt to understand the challenging child.            

  • Discipline that Works:  Promoting Self Discipline in Children

            Written by Thomas Gordon

One of the pleasant surprises of this readable, parent-friendly 240-page book is how Gordon seems to anticipate the quick arguments some might have for his premise that excessively praising/rewarding -- while a better alternative than any punishment -- may not be nearly as fruitful as some would believe.  By chapter three, the reader begins to recognize the everyday difficulties of trying to implement positive reinforcement with perfect consistency and regularity for one child, let alone for siblings or a classroom!  While generally readable, the book must be studied to be effective.

  • Family Rules:  Raising Responsible Children

            Written by K. Kaye

Parents looking for a structured, concise and practical approach for dealing with their children's discipline problems will find reading Dr. Kenneth Kaye's book, Family Rules:  Raising Responsible Children, extremely beneficial.  The author, a child psychologist, stresses that families must have a system of clear and firm rules with consistent consequences applied when rules are broken to manage behavior effectively.

  • Parenting Without Pressure

            Written by Teresa Langston

Ms. Langston has produced a highly readable, well organized book which provides an excellent resource for parents looking for help with discipline.  Ms. Langston writes directly for parents and maintains that discipline should be used to teach children positive decision making, reduce family chaos and conflict, and increase the time needed to build positive parent-child relationships.

  • Parents, Teens, and Boundaries:  How to Draw the Line

            Written by J. Bluestein

Practical strategies for boundary setting for teenagers is the emphasis of this simply and clearly written paperback.  Twenty relationship-building techniques are explored, teaching parents how to avoid conflict, resolve problems, and establish the foundation for mutual love and respect between themselves and their teenagers.

  • Positive Discipline for Teenagers:  Resolving Conflict with Your Teenage Son or Daughter.

            Written by J. Nelson & L. Lott

This is a reference book to which parents will turn for direction on specific problems.  Written with a conservational tone, it can help parents to educate, challenge, and support children in an atmosphere of mutual respect, and to develop and use sound judgment without being judgmental. 

  • Parenting Teenagers: Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (STEP)

            Written by Dinkmeyer, D. & McKay, G.

This is a self-help book for parents of middle and high school students. It is designed to be used alone or as the text for parent training groups as a 10-week self-study program.

  • Discipline that Works:  Promoting Self Discipline in Children

            Written by Thomas Gordon

One of the pleasant surprises of this readable, parent-friendly 240-page book is how Gordon seems to anticipate the quick arguments some might have for his premise that excessively praising/rewarding -- while a better alternative than any punishment -- may not be nearly as fruitful as some would believe.  By chapter three, the reader begins to recognize the everyday difficulties of trying to implement positive reinforcement with perfect consistency and regularity for one child, let alone for siblings or a classroom!  While generally readable, the book must be studied to be effective.

  • Stop Struggling with Your Teen

            Written by Weinhaus, E. & Friedman, K.

This little book is a concise nugget of wisdom for parents.

  • Setting Limits: How to Raise Responsible, Independent Children by Providing Reasonable Boundaries

            Written by MacKenzie, R.

The author provides good support for parents seeking to establish boundaries without physical or overly restrictive methods. Using enhanced communication and "time out", he advances his theory of less stressful ways of fulfilling consequences of child behavior.

  • Changing Children's Behavior Quickly

            Written by Munger, Richard

This easy reading book is for parents of children two years of age and up and is designed to be comprehensible to all, including families who may be unable to benefit from traditional sources of help. The importance of setting clear behavioral limits in order to prevent the development of anxiety when limits are not given is emphasized.

 

  • Positive Discipline

            Written by Nelsen, Jane

A well-written practical guide to child management targeted for both parents and teachers. The book describes a theory of behavior based on Adlerian psychology and prescribes a discipline approach engendered with kindness, respect, firmness and encouragement.

Websites:

  • What Works Clearinghouse

                www.w-w-c.org/

     

  • Savannah Family Institute

            www.difficult.net

            Savannah Family Institute's website. An online guide for treating difficult teenagers for teachers, parents, and therapists. Forms and contracts for dealing with issues such as disrespect, schoolwork, recreational reading, chores, school grades, curfew, and safety.

  • Discipline Help

            www.disciplinehelp.com

            For teachers and parents. A discipline model for handling over 200 different misbehaviors at school and home. Provides solutions and strategies for dealing with behaviors.

  • Risky and Self-Destructive Behavior

            www.focusas.com/Resources.html#Behavior

               This link provides information regarding risky and self-destructive behavior including behavioral disorders, conduct disorders, oppositional defiant disorder, and a variety of other behavioral issues/topics.

  • Controlling Anger – Before It Controls You (American Psychological Association)

www.apa/org/pubinfo/anger.html

            The American Psychological Association brochure offers practical strategies for controlling anger.

  • Understanding Violent Behavior in Children and Adolescents

www.aacap.org/publications/factsfam/behavior.htm

            This Facts for Families information sheet offers a description of violent behavior, some  risk factors, and warning signs.  It also discusses prevention and treatment.

  • Children Who Steal

www.aacap.org/publications/factsfam/steal.htm

            This Facts for Families information sheet provides good general information for parents on how to handle stealing.

 

 

  • A parent newsletter

www.tnpc.com/parentalk.adoles.html

            A newsletter with articles on a variety of topics such as "Keeping the Lines of Communication Open", "Socializing and Body Image", "Talking about Sex", "Talking about Drugs", "Discussions on Suicide", and "Dealing with Divorce".